Hey, this is Rundelya! As an adult model on OnlyFans and a sexologist, I have always cherished the connections I establish with my audience. Engaging in personal conversations has allowed me to learn about different cultures, hear unique life stories, and share in the joys and challenges of others. However, over time, my perspective on direct messaging has significantly evolved, leading me to reassess how I interact with my subscribers.

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Shifts in Communication

Initially, I enjoyed chatting with my fans. I found it rewarding to connect on a personal level and appreciated hearing about their lives. But as I continued these interactions, I began noticing a troubling trend: many accounts were not genuine. These were often operated by individuals, such as Indians or Mexicans illegally immigrating to the U.S., or by fake agencies or hired intermediaries. These entities would attempt to lure models like me into working with them, promising unrealistic rewards, which made it challenging to build authentic relationships with fans.

This realization was disheartening, as I found my kindness and naivety sometimes exploited in these conversations. Fortunately, I recognized the warning signs and never fell for their tricks. Additionally, scammers, such as carders who hacked fans’ accounts, they offered to send me tips from hacked accounts. They offered to do it for a fee that I could keep half for myself and send them the rest in the form of cryptocurrency. While I always refused, I realized that’s not what I came here for. Which later proved that my decision was the right one. I read about other models who fell for such scams and were subsequently banned by OnlyFans. It’s a reminder that not only fans but also creators need to exercise caution.

There are also clients who deceive creators by claiming it’s their birthday to receive free content or who never purchase content but offer false praise to PPVs, saying, “Oh yes, baby, it’s amazing.” These individuals derive satisfaction merely from conversations, wasting my time. Many haggle over prices or offer amounts so low that I couldn’t even afford a coffee at Starbucks.

After numerous experiences where my good intentions were met with insincerity, I decided to change my approach. Now, I automatically assume that 80% of accounts that contact me are freeloaders or scammers. This mindset helps me avoid disappointment and emotional exhaustion. While I still see myself as a kind person, I’ve learned to protect my energy and focus on more meaningful interactions. When a fan immediately tips me a specific amount or purchases my PPV content, I know they genuinely want authentic interaction.

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Impact on Subscribers

This shift in communication style reflects a broader issue many creators face. Many fans, especially those who offer financial support, may feel frustrated by the lack of genuine interaction. They may begin to disengage, opting to consume content passively rather than actively participating in conversations. This can lead to a loss of interest in connecting with creators, even if they theoretically desire such interactions.

The reality is that many subscribers seek authenticity and sincerity. Encountering a wall of agency-managed accounts can be disappointing. As a result, some fans might choose to forgo interaction altogether, which can be detrimental to both the creator and the audience.

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Finding Balance in Engagement

So how do we navigate this complex landscape? Here are a few strategies I’ve found helpful:

• Set Clear Boundaries: It’s important to establish what type of communication you’re comfortable with. Let your audience know how you prefer to interact, whether through scheduled Q&A sessions or curated content.
• Focus on Quality, Not Quantity: Rather than attempting to respond to every message, prioritize meaningful interactions. This approach not only saves time but also fosters deeper connections with those who genuinely appreciate your work.
• Create Engaging Content: Shift the focus from direct messaging to creating content that encourages interaction. Polls, questions, and interactive posts can stimulate engagement without the need for personal conversations.
• Be Transparent: If you use a team to manage your account, be open about it. Let your audience know that while you may not respond to every message, you value their support and are dedicated to providing quality content.

Conclusion

In conclusion, while I treasure the connections I’ve made on platforms like OnlyFans, I’ve realized the importance of protecting my emotional well-being. By setting boundaries and focusing on quality interactions, I can continue engaging with my audience in a way that feels authentic and fulfilling.

As we navigate this ever-changing landscape of online interaction, let’s remember the value of genuine connections and the importance of preserving our passion for what we do.

What are your thoughts on this topic? How do you manage your interactions with your audience? I’d love to hear about your experiences! 💖

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