Hello, wonderful readers! I’m Rundelya, an adult model on OnlyFans and a sexologist. Today, I want to share my thoughts on a topic that has intrigued me for quite some time: the changing perception of intimacy as I navigate through life. Once, I viewed it as a crucial aspect of existence, but my views have shifted significantly over the years.

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A Deep Interest in Sexuality

My fascination with sexuality has always run deep. I’ve immersed myself in this subject, exploring countless articles, books, and even attending workshops led by seasoned experts. However, the deeper I delved, the more I found myself feeling disillusioned. What is often celebrated as an expression of love or even an art form reveals itself to be, at its core, a rather basic biological function. The romanticized portrayals — from idealized scenes in films to pseudoscientific myths about cosmic connections — begin to feel like a thin layer masking a fundamental human need.

Recently, I’ve noticed a change within myself: the more I understand intimacy, the less I feel compelled to engage in it. And no, this isn’t about aging; I’m not in my twilight years, and physical limitations aren’t a factor here. I don’t experience any concerning changes that would warrant alarm. Yet, the trend is evident, and I’ve become curious about the reasons behind this transformation.

Shared Experiences Among Friends

Interestingly, I’ve discovered that some of my friends share similar sentiments. One friend has completely stopped engaging in intimate relationships and claims she’s perfectly content, despite my suggestions to seek professional advice. Another confided that intimacy has become more of a burden than a pleasure, especially in long-term partnerships. A third friend experienced a significant drop in desire after becoming a parent, which is understandable but still adds to the overall picture.

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From a scientific perspective, a decline in interest in intimacy is natural and multifaceted. It can be linked to hormonal changes, stress, fatigue, or even excessive external stimulation. Research indicates that women, in particular, often experience a decrease in sexual desire in long-term relationships. A study conducted in a major city found that a significant percentage of women reported a noticeable decline in their interest in intimacy.

This finding was an eye-opener for me. I had once considered sex to be an almost universal pleasure — for all of humanity. However, this belief now feels outdated. My deep dive into the subject has unveiled its many facets, from physiological to psychological. While intimacy is undoubtedly an important part of life, it is far less sacred or essential than society often portrays.

A Shift in Perspective

That said, I’m not entirely disillusioned. For me, intimacy has transformed into a conscious choice rather than an instinctual need. Honestly, I find myself more interested in cultivating deep emotional connections than in chasing fleeting physical sensations. I also noticed that I became more aroused by intelligent and intellectual personalities, I became more aroused by intellectual conversations, where there is a meaningful load and flirtation, not just fleeting lust.

Conclusion

What do you think? Is this merely a personal journey, or does it reflect a broader reality? As we navigate our relationships and desires, it’s essential to recognize that our perspectives on intimacy can evolve, leading us to prioritize what truly matters in our lives.

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