By Rundalya

Let’s be real—relationships are messy. Sometimes you dive in because the chemistry is electric, only to realize later that the person you’re with isn’t matching your energy. And then comes the dilemma: Do I stay and hope they change, or do I walk away before resentment takes over?

I’ve been there. More than once.

When Potential Isn’t Enough

There was a time when I thought I could “fix” someone—give them a chance, push them toward success, hope they’d wake up and match my drive. “I’ll help her start an OnlyFans,” I thought. “If she just puts in the work, maybe this could work out.”

But here’s the hard truth: You can’t want success for someone more than they want it for themselves.

She said, “Don’t leave, I’ll do it!”—but then? Nothing. No effort, no hustle, just empty promises. And suddenly, I was stuck between frustration and guilt. Was I being unfair? Or was I just refusing to admit that some people are comfortable where they are, even if that place is nowhere near where I’m headed?

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The Freedom of Walking Away

For seven years, I avoided serious relationships. And you know what? It was freeing. No drama, no expectations, no being dragged down by someone else’s lack of ambition. Just fun, passion, and moving on when things ran their course.

But then, I slipped. I let someone in—not because she was the one, but because… well, sometimes loneliness or convenience blurs the line between what we want and what we settle for.

And that’s when the universe sends you a reality check.

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The Instagram Epiphany

The other day, I posted a random Reel—just a centipede in the woods with some sarcastic caption about relationships. 3.2K views. More engagement than my usual content. And the irony wasn’t lost on me: A bug got more attention than the person I was stressing over.

Maybe that was the sign. Maybe some people, like that centipede, are just passing through—interesting for a moment, but not meant to stay.

What Do You Really Want?

Here’s the question I had to ask myself: Am I looking for love or just distraction?

If it’s love, then yeah—it’s worth waiting for someone who adds to your life, not just takes up space. But if it’s just about the thrill of the chase, the excitement of seduction… then why force something that isn’t there?

Some people are lessons, not soulmates. Some relationships are just karma balancing itself out. And sometimes, the best thing you can do for both of you is walk away.

Final Thought

Not everyone is meant to level up with you. And that’s okay.

The right person won’t feel like a project. They won’t drain you. They’ll match your energy, push you forward, and make you wonder why you ever settled for less.

Until then? Keep posting those Reels. Keep growing. And never apologize for outgrowing what no longer serves you.

(P.S. Centipedes > toxic relationships. Just saying.)

With love,
Rundalya 💖
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